It's interesting to think that kindness is a fruit of the spirit. So many people today would think that kindness is just something that we have. Even those who do not believe in Christ or the Holy Spirit can be kind. And yes, that is true... so what does it mean to have the kindness from the Holy Spirit?
This is just my thoughts on it, I may not be correct, but I believe that the kindness from the Holy Spirit is the kindness that comes no matter how we are feeling. When we allow our emotions to take control of us, it can become difficult for some people to remain kind. We find that we take all our emotions out on others and find ourselves being rude or hurtful. I believe that when we allow the Holy Spirit to fill us with His kindness, when we are upset about something someone has done to us, we are still able to respond to them, and to all those around us, with kindness.
Thinking of times in my life, I know there was a time where I had a friend who was extremely horrible to me, and had said some nasty things. Without the Holy Spirit to guide me I responded with horrible and nasty words myself. I wanted revenge and I responded with anger. This then transfered onto the people around me, I wasn't able to respond with kindness because I wasn't letting the kindness in.
I guess its a lesson that we are all continually learning from. And we will be tested in it from time to time. We are not going to go through life without being hurt or let down, but when we are we need to remember to allow the gifts of the Holy Spirit into our heart. We shouldn't block off our hearts to the gift of kindness because someone has been unkind to us.
"But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you" (Luke 6:27-31)
Thankful for: Days of restorations
It was a public holiday today, and I was able to use this as a day of restoration. I seriously spent the entire day on my bed watching tv... Was that lazy? Maybe it was.... but sometimes we need these days just to recover from the busy-ness that can come into our lives. It's nice to put everything aside and put everything into perspective.